7/1/09(2)

Today I finally understand why there's misunderstanding. It's because people don't talk much and every time we does, we either said the wrong thing, heard the wrong thing or thought the wrong thing was the right thing.

In dictionary, misunderstanding means "misinterpret, misjudge, misread, misconstrue".

Oh my God! Misunderstanding is a great knowledge. Do you know why? I've got into a bad relationship with my family because of misunderstanding and now it's starting to reveal... My family's better to me and thanks to my dear, he always supported me. ^^

I think it's time, us family, talk.

Do you know what's the best way to solve a misunderstanding? TALK!!

However, before that, everyone have to sit down and write down what they don't like about that person then what they like about that person. Tell you a true story.

Last 2 weeks, I told my dear that I want to break up with him and we did. But the very next day, I regretted. I thought in my mind, why I loved him and why I don't now. Then I realized that I was very childish and my dear was very patient with me. He kept telling me but I didn't listen.

Last week, he asked for a breakup. Then I don't understand why. I asked him to write down the what he love about me and what he don't love about me. I don't know if he wrote them down but I did. Again, I realized how bad, harsh and childish I was. That's why he wanted to breakup with me. I realized that I didn't show appreciation towards what he did for me and kept dragging him down. I know it's my fault so I try sms him.

Then I realized there were alot of misunderstandings... Now, it's better. ^^

Communication is equal to no misunderstanding.

However, love stands it all.

Where there is love, nothing is too much trouble and there is always time. ^^

=?Enchanted?=