Sunday, February 8, 2009

08/2/09

Can you differentiate love and like?

When you like someone, you want to be with him always because he brings you happiness; when he leaves you, you will miss him, think of him and you'll smile then carry on with your life thus hoping to see him the next time.

When you love someone, you want to be together with him because that is a feeling that you miss him like crazy, you're afraid he will feel tortured, afraid that he can't take care of himself; when he leaves you, you will miss him too then you would sigh then think, "i guess how he's living now?" Then you would continue with your life but hope that he comes back to you.

In your eyes,the person you like is like an angel, he can do everything, he can always fulfill your willfulness requirements.

In your eyes, the person you love is like a child, you don't hope that he does anything "great", you just tolerate every funny act he does.

You just hope that the person you like will always be beside you, then in your heart, you may think of the person you love;

You hope that the person you love will be beside you, looking at him, sleeping in front of you freely and relaxed, you will smile and feel really happy.

The person you like, hurt you, you will be angry and you want him to make you smile, then you would forgive him;

The person you love hurt you, you would feel sad alone because you're scared that he would scream at you thus frighten him, you can only smile, look into his eyes and once you saw in his eyes, his regrets and feeling sorry, you will want to lie in his arm, at that moment, you feel as though you have the whole world.

You can like more than one at a time, you hope that many can stay together. However, you realize that the person you love is only him. The only one, and it would never change. You thought you have forgotten him, but it's because you're too busy, no time to think of him.

Towards the person you like, you look into his pros;

Towards the person you love, you look into his shortcomings; if those shortcomings are not something to do with principles, in your eyes, they're cute and incomparable.

Like and love, there's no big difference. However, love starts with like.

One day, when you suddenly realize that the person you like is no more perfect, and his imperfection makes you want to stay on with you longer, you'll feel that he's glowing, compared to others. You're more willing to look at his helpless emotions, don't know if it should be congrats because your relationship has just upgrade.

Admiration is not love nor is it like, when you admire someone while you're committed, you would lose peacefulness.

Some people say, when you love someone, it's tiring. It is true, because you want to be taking care of his everything, you want to be responsible for all his problems so that he wouldn't need to face it alone.

The biggest difference between love and like is most probably, when you're with the person you love, you feel like you're home.


I really don't know what I can do. I don't know if I can still get back to my dear. I really miss him very very very very very very very very much. I feel terribly sad but I don't want him to feel sad. I don't know if he have forgiven me but I hope he still loves me.

My dear, I'm sorry couldn't let you stay with me.

Yesterday, a friend told me that to find a person to date, it's because you like that person but for a guy, when makes them stay on with that person, it's their character.

I guess I have to change so that my dear would forgive me and come back to me.

Thanks for those who have scolded me for the past week about my shortcomings. I'll change and change thoroughly.

Dear, please wait for me, give me some time. Remember that you have to marry me 4 years later. Give me time and a chance. Thanks.

I love you.

=?Enchanted?=

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